Friends, Transition

There Are More – TDoR 2017

This week is Trans Awareness Week. If you follow my blog at all, you’ll already know that I am trans and non-binary, if not… You do now! 

I am very privileged in that I have the platform to speak to others about gender, I have this blog, I know a lot of people, I have a lot of friends on Facebook, I can promote this stuff. 

Not everyone is so lucky.

Image description: Lit candle on a black background white text reads

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Farewell Finn

cn: suicide, death, nhs cuts, chronic illness

Finnian John Lytle was an amazing person. That’s not just me saying that because he’s passed away and I want to put him on a pedastool, he was genuinely lovely. I honestly don’t know anyone who hated Finn, he was someone you just couldn’t help but love. 

Unfortunately, he had a lot going on in his life and, on the 18th May 2017, Finn committed suicide.

I wrote this post a little while ago, but haven’t been able to post it until now, 4 months to the day. 

Two photos of Finn with the words above 'Farewell Finn'

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There’s No Such Thing As Too Much Love

I love all three of my partners. I love Tyler, Panda and Kasey. They are all a part of my life and I feel wonderful being openly and honestly involved with all of them.

But I know a common retort is “How can you love more than one person? How is that even possible?” Today I want to explain how I experience love, and how I can possibly feel love for more than one.

Polyamory symbol of a heart and infinity sign, text reads 'There's No Such Thing As Too Much Love'

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Blog Series, Blogging A-Z, LGBT, Transition

Kai & Other Popular Names

My name is annoyingly common now. It wasn’t when I first came out, but now it really is.

I have been going by the name Kai since I was about 16, on and off. That is now nearly seven years. In that time, it has become much more popular and I know a lot of people called Kai now.


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Blog Series, Blogging A-Z, LGBT

Intersex People

I am not intersex (to my knowledge, a lot of people don’t know unless extensive tests are carried out), and therefore this post will not be a long one because I don’t know a massive amount on the subject. Instead today I want to give some links to explain what it can mean.


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